From before we got the news…
This is a post I had started, but hadn’t published when we got word. Because I am too OCD to just post it afterwards, I will post it now. lol.
The original title: A Grandma and Grandpa kind of evening.
Once again, my folks come over to check out the car and see what is needed to fix it, and spend the evening with us. This time I remembered to grab the camera and get a few shots of them with the kids.
Playing downstairs in the “school” room (also known as the “room of things that must be supervised to play with” for those million piece toys and scissors and messy things.)
Way to drive your brother crazy: Interpret the spinner results as the picture of the character on the corners of the spinner card instead of the number it points to. (and picking up that character and moving it a random number instead of sticking to your character)
I gotta give mom credit here. She hates puzzles. A lot. And Zora won’t pick out a puzzle she can actually do, she picks out Zane’s puzzles (This one is “Pintzets Peetz”, aka “Princess Peach” from Mario series). This one is particularly annoying to put together, so after watching mom try to patiently get Zora to put it together herself, I put down the camera to help. lol
After I put down the camera, Zane picked it up and ran around taking pictures. Most of them are blurry, so I will show smaller versions.
Before I leave the downstairs, I just wanted to show a picture of the chalkboard. I really liked the quick cartoons Zach made.
Then, as he often does, he asked “four players”, his way of asking if we can play video games up in his room. When Grandma & Grandpa are here, they limit it to Mario Cart (or at least a driving game) and we insist that Zora is allowed to join in, something that Zane isn’t thrilled with, but worth the sacrifice if he gets to play Nintendo with Grandma & Grandpa. (Usually Zora is not allowed in his room).
You may see this as some kind of OCD exercise, but I see it as a poignant snapshot of real life that gets disrupted suddenly by bad news, and how you need to regroup afterward. Thank you for sharing both the good and bad parts of your life with us, particularly at this time when you are grieving.
Fondly,
Mia